Divorce sucks, as does being a Dad when you’re not married to the Mom. The Standard Orders which define our actual rights suck even more than divorce. The Standard Orders are bigoted, backwards and Marxist (that is, intended to destroy the family). Our culture is gyno-centric: it favors women with both marital property and child custody laws. Until we fix that — and we will do so, or our culture will simply die — I recommend the following wise ‘influencers’ to get Men through their emotional battles with women:
— Orion Taraban, also known as PyscHacks: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=orion+taraban
— Richard Cooper: https://www.youtube.com/@EntrepreneursInCars
— PsycheDepth: https://www.youtube.com/@PsycheDepth-o7w
There are innumerable divorce and custody lawyers out there, but they begin with the false premise that, “Men are simple — feed them and ‘f’ them and they’re happy.”
I disagree. Men are complicated. We demand a cause and a dream to live for — think Socrates, Amerigo Vaspucci, Lewis & Clark, MLK, Charlie Kirk, etc. For most of us, once we have a wife and a kid, we’re committed — we’re focused on the dream. When the relationship falls apart, it’s because Venus schemed to chase some sordid escape fantasy which ultimately destroyed everything.
The idea that men live by our belly or our phallus is profoundly dumb. But there are a lot of dumb lawyers, former lawyers, counsellors, commentators and the like who simply don’t get the male of the species.
That explains a lot. They need to evolve, awaken or simply stop talking about men.