If you already surrendered to the bullying once, then maybe I can still help you. I can certainly help the defeated Mom or defeated Dad plan another battle for another day. The keys to tomorrow’s fight (that is, child custody modification) are:
1. cooperate with the judge’s order in the meantime;
2. practice silence as power with your ex; and
3. don’t engage (or act) crazy.
Let your opponent have the room he/she needs to sabatoge themselves. They’ll likely do it.
See 3 Rules for Success in Family Court Litigation on this website.
The day for fighting your custody case anew will come — it always, inexplicably does. My view is that you should do the following if you want that day to come:
1. prepare for the next fight;
2. contemplate the next fight; and,
3. remain open to allowing the day to pass without starting another fight.
If there is a path for you to win, I can help you find it.
But the better way to live life is to assure that it’s always the right journey.